Ask Tell Ask Scenario 1

Scenario
Mr. Jones has been in the hospital for 3-4 days and has become increasingly confused.  He has metastatic cancer, and the physicians are worried about brain mets.

Nurse:
Good morning Mrs. Jones.  You look tired.  I see that the doctors just rounded. Can you tell me what they explained to you?

Mrs. Jones:
They told me that my husband’s confusion is concerning and that it might mean the cancer has spread.  They said that it might have spread to the brain!

Nurse:
That must be very upsetting.  They shared with me the same information. 
Do you understand why cancer spreading to the brain in your husband’s case is concerning?

Mrs. Jones:
Yes, our oncologist had told us that if the cancer spread to the brain, we might not have any more chemotx options.

Nurse: 
They have scheduled an MRI for this afternoon.  Maybe I can suggest to them that we set up a family meeting once we have the results.

Mrs. Jones:
That would be great.  I know my kids will want to be a part of the conversation.  They are really worried as well.